Non, celles d'un déplacement.
Will be back soon... si je ne gèle pas, fait froid où je vais.
Ici on discute, on mesure, on réfléchit, on analyse, on pleure (pas moi), on rigole (moi aussi), on se déchire, on se rabiboche, on se rapproche, on se tourne le dos, on règle des comptes, on fait les comptes, on pèse les mots, on se balance des vérités...
Pas eu envie d'écrire ces derniers temps.
Je te souhaite un bon voyage.
RépondreSupprimerPour le reste, de mon point de vue cela ressemble plus à une crise qu'à un échec. Je crois qu'ici, en un peu plus de 4 ans, on a vécu 4 épisodes comparables. A chaque fois, j'ai cru que c'était fini. Mais à chaque fois, on a sensiblement amélioré la situation. Au pied du mur, on a toujours rétabli le dialogue, tôt ou tard.
Pourtant, ce n'est toujours pas ce qu'on espérait. Et de nombreuses personnes nous encouragent régulièrement à la séparation.
Mais en même temps, quitter un type bien, fidèle, qui a des qualités évidentes, et qui vous aime, c'est coton ! Et comme je crois pouvoir écrire d'après tes lignes, que ta Dame est une femme "bien", fidèle j'imagine d'emblée, avec des qualités et qui t'aime...
Je vous souhaite le meilleur !
Manderley
J'ai essaye de commenter mais suis pas certaine que tu ai besoin de mon avis sur ce coup la :(
RépondreSupprimerPrends soin des tiens et de toi :)
Bises
Bon voyage, peut être que le déplacement l'éloignement apportera quelques réponses évidentes. Pas facile. Do your best. Et à bientôt
RépondreSupprimerHi boy, cold nights so ?
RépondreSupprimerYou don’t write anymore, that misses me.
OK, OK, I know, I know… we are just Internet users, no obligations, we are free to be, or not to be ! OK, you need to stay alone, full of silence and wind in your head.
I know, I am boring ! We are not friends, we don’t even know. But I miss you.
When I began to read your blog, I was happy to know that I was not alone, or not the only one.
Another fish in this jar, a little bit stormy water.
I always hoped that you feel happy, that your blended family becomes a success story !
I read your words. Every day. And I found you so clever, sensible, balanced…
You often had right words, humor in more. You allowed me to understand certain things of my own life, day by day.
So often, I holded on just one day more, thanks to you…
I always knew you did not say everything about your life. All truth is not good to be said.
I respect the bear in you :)
Whatever, each story is unique. When you‘re down, you leave far from writing.
When I fall, I write rivers !
I might as well tell you now : your Lady is fine.
I even think we are not so different . She wasn’t so lucky. She did not understand everything. She was injured. She suffered. At first, she dreamed of a great love, a sweet life together, a cloudless happiness.
And she loved you with passion.
Then, she was damaged, abused, and she cried a lot.
I often cry myself.
I wanted to tell you, and you must hear me ... she still loves you.
Another woman won’t love you better or stronger.
Give her a chance - give you same chance.
She will always be there for you.
At this moment, I'm sure she misses you.
She thinks of you, she’s sad and lonely.
She thinks you're going to leave her.
She thinks you're going to abandon the dream.
Do not leave.
Marry her !
Shows her that you want to spend the rest of your life with her and nobody else.
You really have to commit yourself - make up your mind !
Prove her that you care.
Think like a woman !!!!!!
You don’t want to write.
I wanted to talk to you.
I read your lines hundreds of times
You love this woman.
You are very very in love with her.
OK, not perfect… both of you.
In this story, everyone wants to be reassured, and everyone is afraid ! Everyone wants to know if the other still loves !
Children, woman, everyone feels insecure. You just have to show them you have enough love for everyone.
But also keep tell them that you need EACH OF THEM to be happy : children and lady…
They must share !
If you leave her.
If she leaves you.
You'll both be miserable and unhappy.
And what seems so hard to you now, will be worse without her smile in your life.
I can write all this, just because I'm like her, like your lady.
Because it’s also my life.
So if you trust in me, just a few, if you read my blog, if you understand my words, think your wife could write exactly the same blog !
It takes bravery to be rejected, unloved or misunderstood by children often unfair, sometimes by people with bad intentions.
It takes valor and dignity to still stay, be silent, and endure !
We do it for love and nothing else.
She does it for you.
Remember me - I’m PAG - the FISH ! :)
And just like your Lady, I suffer in silence - but I stay close to him ! This is just my place.
Good luck Teddy Bear !
Emotionaly, you stirred me...
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